Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Perfection, Sweeter than Gingerbread

By Desiree Glass (aka Grandma)

Adults and children converged upon the kitchen table—and two gingerbread houses, previously constructed by Aunt Bekah and Aunt Emma. Multi-colored candies awaited their purpose in clear glass dishes, while children awaited their signal to begin. Grandma worked quickly to squeeze rows of gooey white frosting on rooftops to create a sheathing for confectionary shingles. Then children grabbed communion-wafer-like discs to decorate in a mix-match pattern across the gable roof. Chewy gumdrops and candy beads left glass dishes and found their way into toddler’s hands—but more landed in their mouths than on the house. Uncles painted clothes on gingerbread men and drew faces with smiles to match the grandchildren’s. Little ones climbed on the table and reached over the gingerbread house to snag more candy, while Grandma prayed the icing mortar was strong enough to prevent a collapse. Aunt Tara snapped photos as fast as she could to keep pace with the flurry of activity and hopefully capture the perfect shot for the front of Grandma’s card.

After surveying more than a hundred of those photos, I selected six to fill the candy-striped slots of the perfect Snapfish template. Its background of weathered wood siding gave it a country look—perfect for this farm-dweller’s card.

But when my 100-card order arrived, it was far from perfect. One child’s face was completely cut off and the colors appeared darker than on the preview. Ugh. Back to the drawing board.

Not perfect
After surveying what other companies offered and a hundred other templates, I selected another option. While not perfect, that is what I mailed out.

This time of year, it seems we get caught up with perfection—finding the perfect gift, the perfect tree, the perfect decorations. Creating the perfect light display, the perfect Christmas cookie, the perfect holiday meal. And for me, creating the perfect themed Christmas card and a message to match. But this year it didn’t come together so easily. This time, stringing words together has been a greater struggle than untangling and stringing lights on the Christmas tree.

What is my problem? I wondered, as I stared at my grandchildren’s gingerbread house, now decorating my kitchen counter. Certainly not a work of art, but in my eyes, it was perfect.

Then I got it!

That’s how God sees me.

Sure, I have my imperfections. We all do. That’s why God sent Jesus.

“And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth” (John 1:14).

And “with one perfect offering, Jesus has perfected forever those who are being made holy” (Hebrews 10:14).

When we confess our sins and accept Jesus’ sacrifice on our behalf, we are made righteous. We are perfect in His eyes. And to me, that is sweeter than gingerbread!

This Christmas, let us quit striving for perfection, for that can only result in stress and make us feel like we are coming unglued. Instead, let us focus on the Savior, in Whom we are being made perfect (Hebrews 10:14), in Whom all things hold together (Colossians 1:17)—way stronger than icing mortar.

Jesus.

The Word.

A Christmas message in a single word.

Got it?

2 comments:

  1. You are very blessed. It shows in the eyes of those around you.
    Your card is very nice and offers a warm greeting.
    This is a wonderful time to share in family things and to share in Christ traditions. Your writing is very clear and appreciated.
    Have a Great Christmas and a Wondrous New Year.

    David C
    kodac958@aol.com

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    1. Thank you, David! I always appreciate your comments :). Wishing you all the best in 2016!

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