“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the
one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks,
the door will be opened.”
I
cried when my closest colleague told me she was retiring. They should have been
tears of joy for her, but honestly they were tears of sorrow for myself. Roz
and I had worked together for 10 years, both of us high school CTE (Career and
Technology Education) teachers. At least seven of those years, we occupied
adjoining classrooms. I don’t know why the rooms were designed with a shared
door, nor do I know of any similar setups in the building, but I do know it was
designed just right for us. Being next to each other in our secluded wing of
the building gave us the opportunity to get to know each other on a deeper
level. Early communication revealed that we shared the Christian faith. Soon we
were praying together in the mornings before school began. While at first we
prayed for our school, our students, and the day before us, in time our
petitions evolved to personal matters. Roz and I learned we had so much more in
common than our faith. We were both career changers, each of us having worked
in the world of business before becoming teachers. Each of us had also dabbled
in the dramatic arts in our younger days. We were both faithful churchgoers and
at the time we were both church treasurers, collaborating even on church
accounting software. We had granddaughters born within weeks of each other.
Later our daughters gave birth to preemies, each early delivery a result of the
same condition. Together, we rejoiced; together we cried. I shared private
concerns with Roz that I have shared with no other, except the Lord. I knew I
could trust Roz to keep everything in confidence. I also knew I could rely on
her to give wise advice. No matter the situation, Roz would come through for
me, whether an idea for an assignment, a prayer, advice, or her comforting
presence. All I had to do was knock. Help was just beyond the door.